Why am I so happy to be the Radical Sexologist? What is radical sexuality and why is it essential for lasting sexual and relational resilience?  Ultimately, I believe that people who have created their most authentic sex lives are living by a set of principles that are nourishing for sexual expression, relational presence, and a […]

Why tighter may not be right-er The pelvic floor needs a public relations campaign. Seriously! The pelvic floor is one of the body’s many unsung heroes, quietly humming along in the background taking care of us.  Even when something goes wrong with the pelvic floor, most people don’t know enough about it to even suspect […]

Lubrication.  What a wonderful thing. It reduces friction when body parts rub together. It makes sex comfortable.  Heck, it makes it more than comfortable, it makes sex pleasurable! Many women* feel very proud of the amount of lubrication they create when aroused.  For some it is a sign of their femininity. For others it expresses […]

Perhaps the most common complaint of women* in my office is of pain with sex.  When I am meeting with a woman around the time of menopause or after, far too often the conversations goes something like this… Me: “Did this pain start in menopause?” Client: “Yes, I was fine before that?” Me: “Did your […]